If you love her, don’t destroy her

I Know You Love Her.

If you didn’t, you wouldn’t be with her. However, since you’re just a person with variable feelings, you may be inclined to love her in all the wrong ways.

A joyful, solid relationship can change into a dangerous one if you treat her into a different way than she deserves.

In any case, I trust you try to love her from the bottom of your heart. I trust you cast each ray of awareness upon your love for her. I trust you realize that awareness is the thing that keeps a relationship solid.

I need you to recall what she looked like when you saw her for the first time. She was all that you wished-for. Be it her beauty, independence, her wild nature or her sens of humor, there’s something about her you haven’t found in any other person.

Also, what stunned you the most was her completeness.

If you cherish her, keep her along these lines. Keep her beauty, keep her wild, keep her complete.

While she’s the master of her own destiny, I wish you comprehended that you have an important part in her life. How you treat her decides how she sees herself—you can make her sparkle or make her vibe lost. She’s a statue in your hands and she just plans to be held with tenderness.

In the event that you love her, don’t destroy her.

Realize that she was crushed before and another destruction isn’t what she’s going for. If she’s with you, realize that she has confronted her fear and weaknesses to be with you. She has ventured over her past and chose to give love another possibility. She has entrusted you with the health of this relationship and with her heart.

Try not to disappoint her.

You decimate her the minute you think you know her. She’s not a book you will in the end wrap up. She’s something yet to be found, so experience each day as though you’re seeing her for the first time.

Be present. Nothing destroys her more than your emotional absence. You can sit with her throughout the day and not so much be there, yet you can be so far away and be totally present.

Stimulate her thoughts, her feelings, her being. Plunge into her spirit like you’d jump into a sea.

Realize that you’ll wreck her if she at any point felt you need her as opposed to want her. You’ll annihilate every last bit of her if you just cherish her when loneliness crawls up on you. Since she looks for your adoration in all minutes, not exactly when your feelings of fears and uncertainties strike.

I know that your own past sufferings may have demolished you. Be that as it may, don’t love her to make sure she can carry your emotional weight with you. Try not to love her if you just need her to fix you. Realize that she will, with time, without you even knowing.

Her affection and presence will heal all aspects of you. But if you are with her exclusively to fill the vacancy inside you, she will know and it will ruin her.

Also, know that she wouldn’t like to be fixed either. Perhaps she opened up to you and told you about her difficult past. Maybe you know the correct number of pieces she was transformed into. However, she didn’t disclose to you so you would fix her, she just revealed to you so you can comprehend what she suffered and how it changed her into the one she is today.

She needs you to know that your actions toward her actions inspired by love, comprehension and tolerance are what matter.

Try not to treat her like a broken lady. She is complete with every one of her pieces, despite the fact that they may still be scattered all over the place. Embrace them with her—simply don’t add to them. Make her see why she experienced damaging relationships previously. Make her understand that she experienced the “worst” so she could value the “better” that you are.

If you love her, do it with every one of her defects and weaknesses. She is as incomplete as you are and she just would like to impart that with you. She needs to undress her soul in front of you and be totally herself.

She needs to be a similar path with you that she is in the mirror: crazy, wild and free. In case you’re not prepared to acknowledge her as she may be, you will destroy her.

If you love her, develop her since she will be doing likewise for you. Realize that whatever effort you put in, she will be putting in twice as much.

If you bring her the moon, she’ll bring you the whole galaxy.

If you take her to a well, she’ll take you to the ocean.

If you treat her right, she’ll adore you more.

If you love her well, she’ll always remember you.

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